“Growing up, the parents were not around because they were working, but there was always a grandparent or an aunt living with you in the home, so there was a little bit of discipline and order in the house. There was also the community, who took it upon themselves to a point where it made me so sick, to tell me that I should behave like uTatu Kani’s child. They would ask, does your father know you’re doing this? The problem is that if you were cheeky, they could report you and you would get a hiding. It proved the adage that it takes a village to raise a child.”

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